An Adult Camper's Heartbreak, Strength and Camp HOPE Experience Bailey with her children and husband before he passed. It looks like heartbreak. It looks like anger. It looks like exhaustion. It looks like love with nowhere to go. And this weekend, so many of you were brave enough to let that be seen. There is something incredibly powerful about sitting in a room full of people who understand that loss doesn’t just break your heart — sometimes it changes your entire identity.